The FIVE Points

As I sat in church today and listened to the homily at mass, I was anxious to make a note of the Five Points put forward by Father. Being conscious of what people might think, I did not write the points in Church. Then the 1st thing I did on my return from Sunday School was call people I knew, so that I could impart to you the 5 points, since I could not recollect all.

The homily was based on the Sacrament of "Marriage"

In retrospect, it is very important that if a priest is giving a meaningful homily, one should make note, so that you will not only imply this in your day to day life, but also pass on the message to those who need it.

5 Points indicating your marriage is not working:

a) No Laughter
When we are in love, we laugh together and feel happy. But when things go wrong, even a joke the spouse says, seems silly or irritating.

b) Problem Solving
Angry or upset with your spouse. Instead of dealing on the topic directly with the spouse, the problem is discussed with a close friend, sometimes even the family members. Family members / friends should not put pressure on either couple, but should inform them to deal with the situation with the spouse 1st.

c) Criticism
One should not criticise. For Eg: if there is less salt in the food cooked by the wife, the husband should not shout at her, but inform her very gently that there is something lacking in the food and it might be salt.

d) No Respect
Couples should not insult / embarass one another in public. This is the beginning of many arguments to follow, as one's ego is hurt.

e) Appearance
As the love decreases, the spouse decides not to impress their loved one anymore. Eg: they will pick the 1st ironed outfit to wear, not giving importance to look



5 Points to strengthen your marriage

a) Quality Time
Couples should spend quality time with one another. Do things together, or communal work together. Eg: Zonal Animators

b) Equal Resposibility
In today's society, both husband and wife are working. It is very important that both should shoulder the household chores.

c) Communication
Both husband and wife should make it a point to talk with one another, to inform how their day passed by. This will help them to understand one another better.

d) Complimenting
The husband should never fail to compliment his wife, if she has dressed well. The wife should never fail to compliment her husband, if he is looking good.

e) Prayer
The last, but the most important, is Prayer. A couple must keep Christ as the centre of their relationship. Christ said: Where 2 or 3 are gathered in my name, there I am, in their midst.

Is your marriage on the verge of disaster? Would you like to strengthen it?
TRY THE ABOVE 5 POINTS


God Bless!